One way highway

Tell me how can a man and a woman have a relationship that is managed and driven only by one member of the relationship (the male)? What happened to “friends” with benefits? When it’s mostly causal do we have to give up dinners, drinks, or hanging out? And sex! Why is it a one-way street? Why can’t it be a mutual agreement? Enough sex to satisfy both parties. Fuck the one-way street! I guess most people would think that I am one who is looking for a serious relationship. Not really, I'm just looking for one that has mutual respect for one another. A relationship where both parties can be dependable. A relationship that I can actually call the other a friend. I know that my current obligations are not ideal for a long-term relationship or a real commitment because my children need and depend on me. And I know that the unusual circumstances surrounding my oldest son really don’t allow me to have a fair chance. I think the last relationship that I was in (like all the rest) was a bad mix of funk! I was stupid! But I’m moving on with my head up and putting it behind me. I do think I need therapy. The one thing that sucks about all of this is the fact that I will have to postpone trying a blowjob technique that I read about on a very popular web site.

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